love thoughtsFirst of all i define the love in Dictionary An intense feeling of deep affection:D
Psychologist Robert Sternberg argued that:
“love has three different components: intimacy, commitment, and passion.
Intimacy is a form in which two people share confidences and various details of their personal lives, and is usually shown in friendships and romantic love affairs.
Commitment, on the other hand, is the expectation that the relationship is permanent.
The last and most common form of love is sexual attraction and passion. Passionate love is shown in infatuation as well as romantic love. All forms of love are viewed as varying combinations of these three components. Non-love does not include any of these components.
Liking only includes intimacy.
Infatuated love only includes passion.
Empty love only includes commitment.
Romantic love includes both intimacy and passion.
Companionate love includes intimacy and commitment.
Fatuous love includes passion and commitment. Lastly, consummate love includes all three.
We can categorized the love.
1) Impersonal love: A person can be said to love an object, principle, or goal if they value it greatly and are deeply committed to it.
2) Interpersonal love: Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings. It is a more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another.Such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples.
People with narcissism may have a limited or minimal capability for experiencing love. I have one my best friend who have this treat as well:D
Love has different basis like:
Some people love base on:
1) Biological basis
2) Psychological basis
3) Evolutionary basis
When boys or girls were in their childhood, their love based on, interaction for example if you care and love your small nephew or niece whenever he/she saw you he/she called you like awaaaaaaaaaaaaaahh Chachu, mamuu or with your nick name like momo, massi:D
When we entered is School we feel the true love boy with girl, girl with boy,boy with boy or girl with girl:D
but we didn’t know the word ” bewafa”, we didn’t know the word “Ishq” but we just know how to love someone. At that time we also did’t have any facebook or other social media account where we meet someone special:D
First 10 years on our life was very peacefull when some one called us with our nick name that we didn’t like we simply answer him/her ” Jo kah raha hai wo khud ho ga”:.
When we came in the age of 13 we fell in love with class mate, we started listening songs like ” Tu meri Zindagi hai”,
“Tujy na dakhu tu chain mujy ata nai hai” etc. but when exams came girl ny bewafai kr di:D she said after exams love will start again:(

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In the age of 14-16 years mostly boys hurted by the girls, “Nakam Ishaqs” listen the songs like ” Ya Wafa ka kesa sila dia”, and they might be sang Tapay ” challa mera jee dola jaey koi chalda zour honda, tery pechy kyu roldy jaesy koi tera jeya aur honda”:D
After getting the admission in college they again start the journey of TRue Love:D
They stood on the front of Academies, Schools,Colleges and Universities and start searching again the someone special:P
During College life they mostly experienced the 10+ True Loves:D After getting admission in Universities the journey of True love again start and it’s still in progress……………..:D

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